Independent Woman 2009

I am an independent woman. So many of use that statement with such pride and arrogance and yes it can be a wonderful thing at least sometimes. I am realizing more and more that we are independent women and yes we can do it all by myself, but we don’t want to. The I am a millennium woman mentality in some ways has handicapped us when it comes to sharing. We are so use to sharing things that are nonsensical and of unimportance, that when it is time to share with a significant other we are at a lost for words (YES ME INCLUDED) and its not that we are keeping secrets or even have anything to hide but because we can be outspoken and can keep it real about any everything else when it comes to matters of the heart we are a bunch of wusses. We Can hardly verbalize our thoughts and when we do its in fragments. Some are fortunate enough to have someone that understands that they have been alone and not in a relationship for sometime so they have some patience, but it is a problem that we need to fix. No one wants to be alone or to lose someone special because they can’t seem to get it together and the worst thing is when speaking with others no pne knows even where to start. The thought of being the old lady in the house with all the cats is not what most see in their future but without communication how can you stop it? Your mate is now giving warning signs of their patience wearing thin and that you need to fix the problem ASAP.What is it that chokes us up? It is the thought of being that vulnerable that makes us feel helpless? Is it that we are scared that this wonderful person will in turns use the weakness against us? I need some thoughts and opinions Male and Female.